Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Mocha Jessop 12-15-95 to 9-22-09 R.I.P.

Six months ago today, what I fondly refer to as Black Tuesday, was the most difficult day of my life and I'll speak for Jeff as well that he too feels the same. Today was an equally difficult day in that we lost our wonderful dog Mocha. After nearly 14 years together we are deeply saddened by the loss. She was the greatest dog, a fierce protector, a loving pet, a loyal family member-one of our greatest joys. She howled and moaned the day we brought Jaimee home from the hospital, mourning all that had happened and showing us how much she had missed her buddy Jaimee. She faithfully laid under Jaimee's feet each day as she recovered.

When Mocha was a young pup she use to climb the fences like a cat-an odd sight for such a large dog. For a time when we lived in Simi she would prowl the Knolls ever night with her brother Max coming home exhausted in the wee hours of the morning-that party girl! She would sense danger and protect "her babies" (the kids). She was everybody's friend and proved it by every unwanted lick and clinging hair she left behind. She would out-smart the dog catcher, she would anxiously wait at the door for Jeff's arrival each day from work, she would crawl into bed with me and Jeff and sit on our laps like she was a 15 lb. dog instead of a 45 lb dog. She loved all adults and all children that passed her way whether they wanted her to or not. :)

As in all forms of life there is a day when death awaits for no one-today was that day. Mocha had shown us it was coming. She had lost her sight and taste in the last 2 weeks as well as she had distanced herself from the family by only wanting to be outdoors and sleeping most of the days and nights away. We were happy though to see her enjoying the big backyard at our new house for the last 5 weeks.

I don't know how much pain she was in when I found her having a seizure in the backyard today, but Jeff was good to ask the Vet to give her something to ease her comfort while we made the sad drive to the county shelter to have her put down. She never had to be put down though, she quietly and peacefully died at the shelter in Jeff's arms in the parking lot. Even in death she truly was a beautiful, kind old dog that loved life and loved us.

We'll miss you my dear, sweet Mocha


6 comments:

Mary Lee (Collet) Smith said...

Mardee I too have had a beloved pet die. Catfish Harry our beloved cat of 18 years died and it was just like losing a valued and loved family member. That special pet can never really be replaced, you can bring a new pet into you home and learn to love it but the love for Mocha will remain forever. I wish I were there to wrap my arms around you and cry while you mourn the loss of your family member.
Love Mary Lee

Mardee Jessop said...

Thank you Mary Lee, you've been there for us through all of our trials this year and we appreciate all you have done, your prayers, your kind words and always thinking about us. Love, Jeff and Mardee

Tera said...

So sad to hear it. Thank you for sharing with us - it must be really hard. What a joy to have a loyal dog for such a long time. Love to you all.

Donna Thomas said...

Dear Mardee and Jeff,
I’m so sorry for your loss. Mocha was truly a remarkable pet, and one of the sweetest dogs. No wonder we all love her! Although you were blessed to have her, she was also lucky to have a loving, devoted family. I’m so grateful she was there when you brought Jaimee home, and that she stayed with you throughout these last few months. The picture you posted is perfect. How often did we see Jaimee sitting there with her feet on Mocha, her ever-loyal companion? I know all of you will miss her, but you have a lot of love and wonderful memories that will be with you always. Take care, and give hugs to the kids for us! Love, Donna (and the kids, of course)

Rebecca said...

I had no idea what was going on when I texted you yesterday. You may be far away, now, but I know God let me know you needed me, if even in such a small way. Your family is in our prayers!

BTW, I finally have my blog up. =)http://spot10daze.blogspot.com/

Michelle Williams said...

Ohhh Mardee it is so hard to lose a loved one! Some pets become our children & best friends and strong personalities that light our world and ease our troubles. I'm so glad you had Mocha be there for you for such a long time! I know you have a whole in your heart that is tender, but filled with good memories and love too. I was blessed with such a pet as a child. I have sometimes felt his spirit cuddle up to me in later year to give me comfort. I hope you feel Mocha's caring presence when you need him, because he is still loving and watching over your family.

HUGS and love to you all!
Michelle